There’s something timeless about sitting in a barber’s chair — the hum of clippers, the scent of shaving cream, the familiar comfort of good grooming. And in a place like Manhattan, where style speaks before you do, a visit to the barbershop isn’t just maintenance — it’s a ritual. But just like any classic institution, the barbershop comes with its own set of unspoken rules.

Whether you’re a seasoned regular or stepping into a traditional chair for the first time, mastering these simple but important courtesies can make the experience smoother for everyone — including your barber. Let’s break down the seven unspoken rules every guy should know before heading into the chair.

1. Don’t Be Late — And If You Are, Speak Up

Barbers often book appointments back-to-back, especially in a busy area like Manhattan. If you're late, you're not just pushing your own trim — you’re potentially affecting the guy after you too. Try to arrive five minutes early, and if you know you’ll be running behind, a quick call goes a long way. Respect your barber’s time, and they’ll respect yours.

2. Know What You Want (But Stay Open to Advice)

You don’t need to walk in quoting haircut terminology like you’re auditioning for a salon reality show, but having a general idea of what you want helps — a photo or reference can work wonders. That said, don’t be offended if your barber gently recommends something different. They know head shapes, hair textures, and styles that actually work in real life.

A great barber shop in Manhattan won’t just copy a photo — they’ll interpret it to fit you.

3. Keep the Phone on Silent (and Off Your Face)

It’s tempting to scroll through messages or take a quick call, but phones and clippers don’t mix well. Your head needs to be still, and your barber needs clear access. Chatting with one hand holding your phone throws everything off. Save the texts for after. The world will still be there when you’re freshly faded and ten times sharper.

4. Clean Hair = Happy Barber

Showing up with a week’s worth of product, sweat, or gym gunk in your hair is kind of like bringing your car to a detailer covered in mud. Not ideal. If your cut doesn’t include a wash, try to come in with clean, dry hair. You’ll get a better cut — and your barber won’t be silently questioning all your life choices.

5. Sit Still, My Guy

We get it — the chair is comfy, and conversation can get animated. But try not to move your head suddenly or lean into the mirror mid-cut. It’s a precision job, and even a small twitch can mess up a clean line. If you’re curious about the progress, just ask. Your barber’s got a system — trust it.

6. Tip Fairly — and Cash is King

Tipping isn’t optional. It’s part of the relationship. For solid work, 20% is standard. If they squeezed you in last minute, gave you a perfect beard lineup, or salvaged a DIY disaster, a little extra is always appreciated. While many barbershops now accept cards, a cash tip is often the smoothest way to show your thanks — and it's remembered.

7. Loyalty Goes a Long Way

Sure, it’s easy to hop around from one barbershop to another looking for “the one.” But when you find a barber who nails your cut every time, stick with them. Loyalty builds trust, and trust leads to better cuts. Your barber starts to learn your preferences, your quirks, and your hair’s strange way of growing. And that’s worth more than any five-star Yelp review.

Respect the Craft

Barbers are more than people who cut hair. They’re artists, therapists, style advisors, and occasionally, miracle workers. Treating them — and the shop — with respect makes the whole experience better for everyone. You’re not just a customer; you’re part of a long-standing tradition. And like any good tradition, it comes with its own rhythm.

Ready to Book Like a Pro?

If you are in or around Manhattan and looking for that old-school-meets-modern-expertise vibe, take these etiquette tips into your next appointment. A good barbershop will give you the style you’re after. But a great barbershop gives you that, and a reason to keep coming back.

One such spot that checks all the right boxes? PHD Barbers — known for their attention to detail, welcoming atmosphere, and a team of highly skilled barbers who know how to deliver both classic and modern looks with precision. It’s the kind of place where great grooming meets genuine service.

Call (212)-510-7985 to book your appointment and see what sets them apart.